SeniorsAloud

In our youth, we loved the mirror. It was kind to us. We looked at our reflection first thing in the morning, last thing before we went to bed at night and countless times in between. We would never pass by a mirror without taking a peek at ourselves in it. But, as the years […]

Fu (left) with Pn Hafsah and Mrs Lim, who often share their harvest of fruit and plants with their neighbours. – LILY FU  By Lily Fu Where would you see yourself living in your old age? Pose this question to a senior citizen. Almost invariably the answer is “at home”. As a senior citizen myself,

If you are seriously contemplating getting back into the work force, especially if you have not worked for 10-20 years, not only will you face stiff competition from younger job applicants, but there is also the question of qualifications, says Fu. – 123rf Just like the younger generation, older folks need jobs too. The longer

Most abused parents would rather suffer in silence than go public about their ungrateful children. After all, who would want to lose face by dragging their family name through the mud? – 123rf We shudder with horror and disbelief when we read in the papers about caregivers in aged care homes physically abusing the elderly

How to stretch your ringgit? Look for special offers and sales. Don’t be embarrassed to ask about special concessions for senior citizens. – LILY FU  It costs RM1.60 for an apple? Just a few months ago, it was only 90sen at my neighbourhood supermarket! Looks like retirees can’t afford to have an apple a day

Take the initiative to explore new horizons and never let our age stop us from trying new things that interest us. Old age creeps up on us, and seems to speed up after we have passed the 70th milestone. One fine morning, we wake up, look in the mirror and reality hits us literally in

The writer with her grandchildren (clockwise from left) Max, Allie, Hana, Reiya and baby Ryder, taken close to a decade ago. – Photos: LILY FU My youngest grandchild turned 10 last month. Celebrating his birthday made me reflect on how quickly the years have rolled by, and how fast the children have grown. My eldest

Dr Pola (far left) and friends are the few exceptions to the rule of female-dominated senior groups. — DR POLA SINGH Recently The Star carried an article titled Where are the women?, about the poor representation of women in the cabinet and how their presence is essential for better responsiveness to citizens’ needs. After all,

Retirees face age discrimination in the workplace. However, there are other options to consider if you want to work post retirement. – 123rf.com We love to have options, don’t we? Options allow us to choose what appeals to us, like the option to retire early at 40, the option to continue working after 60, or

Most bus stops do not display bus routes and schedule on the notice-boards. If we see any, the info is likely outdated. – 123rf.com Most of my senior friends still drive. They tell me they would be helpless without wheels. They wouldn’t have a clue how to get from Puchong to Sunway, or from Kajang